Monday 23 September 2013

Chidiya ke geet

Jab main chhoti thi, jag ka
Andey jaisa tha aakaar;
Tab main yahi samajhti thi
Bus itna sa hi hai sansaar!

Phir mer ghar bana ghonsla
Sookhe tinkon se tayyar
Tab main yahi samajhti thi
Bus itna sa hi hai sansaar.

Phir main nikal padi shaakhon par
Hari bhari thi jo sukumar;
Tab main yahi samajhti thi
Bus itna sa hi hai sansaar.

Lekin jab main aasmaan mein
Udi door tak pankh pasaar
Tabhi samajh mein meri aaya
Bahut bada hai yeh sansaar!

Thursday 6 June 2013

Service Commissions and their delay!

I applied for Bihar Engineering Services Examination in May 2011. They took the exam one and a half years later in December 2012. They declared the written result 6 months later in May 2013. They still have to take the interview and prepare final result and offer the joining letter to the selected candidates. 2 years already passed by, and at least an extra year is likely to take more. (almost more than 3 years for the whole process of recruitment and placement)

I applied for Engineering Services Examination in Feb 2012, appeared at the exam in June 2012. They declared the written result 10 months later in April 2013. Interview in May 2013 and still final result not declared. It’s likely to take almost 6 – 10 more months before the actual joining is offered to selected candidates. (almost 2 years for the whole process of recruitment and placement)

I applied in Airports Authority of India in March 2012, appeared at the exam in August 2012. Interviews were held in December 2012 and final result was declared in January 2013 (faster process though). In the final result, It was written, “Offer letters will follow shortly!” After long wait of 3 months, one fine evening a notice appeared on the AAI website, “Candidates who have applied for the posts in above advertisement may note that the recruitment process is put on hold until further orders!” (indefinite period for the whole process of recruitment and placement)

If this is the way our recruitment agencies work in India, It’s deliberately creating a major workforce who can be employed productively in constructive works into forced unemployment! Though, I have a job, so I do not feel the heat and frustration. Many who are freshers or don’t have patience for such a long wait, and don’t have a job in hand, It’s highly likely they will be frustrated or give up preparing for such exams!

Friday 12 April 2013

The Freedom to feel about things we do not have control over!

When the greed gives way to self satisfaction, and the feeling to acquire more and more gets away with, how do we feel?

Certainly, some people may not be happy with this idea of “not having control over many aspects of their life”. But, In a nutshell, It means, “the relief from worrying about things over which we do not have control”, because at the end, we can always be self satisfied thinking for better results, the freedom to form an association, and for worse results, the freedom to reject an association! But, what makes things “under control” and “not under control”?

(List I): Some examples of things which are not under control of an ordinary human being at some point of time in their life:
Birth (immigration), Choice of parents, siblings and other relatives, Going back in time, Going ahead in time, Manipulating things done in the past, Result of acts done in past, Acts of other human beings, Certain emigration.

(List II): Some examples of things which are under control of an ordinary human being at some point of time in their life:
Mind and Body control, Acts of self done in Present, Choice of friends, Choice of spouse through love-marriage, Choice to have children or not to have, Planning (or waiting) for future tense, Forced emigration, etc.

It’s not possible to manipulate acts in List I. Further, certain acts in List I even though unchangeable, give us our identity. I think, we must feel proud of the same. For acts in List II, It’s possible under normal terms and conditions to obtain better results.

It’s very important to construct positives over things which are under our control, for it tends to bring more and more positives over negatives, and since the things which are not under our control have the equal probability of bringing a favourable or unfavourable result, It’s only acts under our control which may help us to achieve the best out of opportunity available to us!

Saturday 2 February 2013

Learning a new Language


For preparation of civil services exam, I decided to take up a literature subject. With talks to some of my friends, who gave suggestions that its success ratio was good and short syllabus, easy subject, I decided to study Maithili literature and having some knowledge of its talking style. Later, when I started studying the subject, I realized, I had only superficial knowledge of the subject. Further, I realized the real picture was not as presented by some of my friends who had advised to take up the subject. This language has as many as 21 verbs. In English, the verbs do not depend too much on noun. For example:

I eat. You eat. They eat. He eats. She eats. All of them eat, etc, etc.

In Maithili, the verb changes with all these nouns! There are as many as 21 of this kind! No wonder, the language was invented by some of the most intellect of their times. Its inventors added too much emphasis on the prestige element of the sentence.

For example: (Hindi)-(English)-(Maithili)
(Tum kha rahe ho)- (you are eating)-(tao khait chathi)
(aap kha rahe hain)-(you are eating)-(taon khait chathin)
(aap log kha rahe hain)- (You are eating) – (taonsabh khait (verb changes))
(wo log kha rahe hain) - (They are eating) – (oosabh khait (verb changes))
(ye log kha rahe hain) – (These people are eating) – (eesabh khait (verb changes))

As we note, verb changes in Maithili, each time a noun changes its form either in gender, singular, plural or respect. There is too much emphasis on the respect element in the language of Maithili.

One of the examples given by my teacher in class for the “respect”element, where he wanted to show if not used properly, it’s a joke.
Example: A new daughter-in-law starts to learn Maithili and spelled this in Maithili as :“the crow came and took away the bread” -> “kaua alkhin aa roti leke ur gelkhin”.
“alkhin” and “gelkhin” is to be used as a respect element and not for low strata animal.
One student started laughing too loudly in the class after hearing the sentence, as if he heard the divine joke!

In exams, we don’t have to speak, rather, we have to write. We have to write correct! As I realized soon after attending a few classes, the subject was not interesting me, or may be the reason, the teacher’s teaching style did not interest me!

But, one thing is certain, learning a new language is not a cake walk. At this age and learning style, I am not able to learn the grammar of a new language. But, I learnt “hindi” when I was a kid. I had sufficient good enough knowledge (writing, reading and speaking) of the subject at the age of 10 years. Of course people from different states have good knowledge of their native language at the same young age. People from Mithilanchal have good knowledge of Maithili at this age. I learnt English good enough by the age I reached class 8 (12 years of age). Most of the learnings of English took place while I was in class 8~9 with reading lots of English story books from the school library. I learnt English good enough in plain two years with normal routine and not with great emphasis only on the English subject.

This certainly implies the learning ability of a kid is unmatched! When I realized, learning even the grammar of a new subject is not easy at this elder age of now, It made me think, when a kid is learning a new language in the starting phase of his/her life, he/she is not making an ordinary progress. It’s the extra-ordinary achievement of a kid at that level, which makes me to believe, “If a kid can learn a new language at so young age, he can certainly learn any other activity and has the potential to achieve excellence in his/her life”.
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Note: The views expressed above are my own...

Saturday 26 January 2013

My friend...

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O my friend !
How I wish, there could be more like you around me !
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Wednesday 9 January 2013

What gives the most satisfaction !

After a long time, I visited my home. I think, family (including friends) and education are two things which give the most satisfaction.
Had a good interaction with parents, brothers and sisters.
At this point of time, I have not joined any job to save my time for self study ! But, I am always satisfied that due to education I have, I can get a good job any time!
As of now, I think, I have sufficient time available, before I can settle upon a job finally, and further responsibilities!
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(more to be added later)