Dealing with options

Many times we are faced with simultaneously many options and given this condition is true, many times we are faced with selecting a single option.Where selecting a specific particular option is not of great relevance, even then we tend to select an option which best suits and fits our needs/ conditions.

The case of interest in our discussion arises when we are faced with more than one alternatives. At such cases, often confusion(s) arise that may lead to wrong decisions! Many approaches can be followed while making an important decision or choosing. The processes for choosing an option can be broadly classified into the following two

1)Taking the help of mind and analytically calculating and guessing the results of chosen option.

2)Let the things go as they go...

The first method is generally based on certain logical reasonings. A very well calculated guess generally results in the desired result. This process can be really very complex but can be made simpler with some good techniques.

One of them is "the method of elimination". many times it happens that the process of "elimination" is much simpler than the process of "selection".Why ? The condition for "elimination to occur" is fulfilled when any of the conditions produce negative result(s). So here we have to look for any unfavorable situation and hence make a conclusion. On the other hand, considering selection, we have to consider all possibilities ... which may be really confusing. The method of elimination is greatly helpful when a large number of options exist. "Elimination " is what the IITs and IIMs adopt for admitting students to their academic programs. Candidates who survive the process of elimination are the winners and hence are the ones who are "selected". Whereas the two processes are fundamentally different, they may produce more or less similar result(s).

Difference between procedures followed by individuals and rigid systems like institutes (IITs, IIMs,....etc): An individual while taking into consideration the past of a particular option, carefully examines the future of the chosen option. A rigid or well defined system like the selection process of institutes entirely depends on the past of chosen option...

The other method pointed above is "let things go as they go". This is an option generally preferred by people and is self explained. This is more concerned with attitude.

For an individual, the above two classified methods generally would have great different impacts on his/ her life.It can not be inferred with clarity which option would have been the best/ better. My experience shows that in real life situation problems, applying logic does not help many times.

The best option for an individual: Choosing a good option may be a necessary condition to achieve the desired result, but may not be the sufficient condition. So after choosing a particular option, emphasis should be on "positive attitude". Most of the options have the potential to lead to good results...so main emphasis should be on "positive attitude" Adopting this attitude, even a bad option may turn into good option.

"taste"

"taste"

if u r really hungry, u find some water somewhere and gallop that very fast. even a normal meal is so tasty...and u eat till the last grain is in your mouth.

to have a change u may like to have something different.so there is a deviation from normal meal. and the business of all agri-food products and dhabas,hotels,etc flourish.just imagine some ice-cream or a chilling lassi on a hot summer day and u may like to have one now. this is the "spending" side of taste where mostly money is involved and u directly have the feel of taste.

cooking/ creating new eatable stuffs can be a very good time-pass.

a home can be seen in a kitchen every time a couple prepare some food together and their children come to see what is in store for them. a couple may have some indifferences and that's not visible in kitchen.

so do u agree, "taste bonds relationships ?"

so next time, when u are hungry prepare some food stuff and engage your friends/brothers/sisters with u and enjoy the festival of "taste"!

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"home" and "home away from home"

after 3 days i have to go home, but the excitement and enthusiasm to meet family members has faded away.this was not the case while i was in school and we would eagerly wait for vacation. we used to have separate column on blackboard of our class as"DLFGH" meaning "days left for going home" and that was updated daily by monitor of class.

time have changed and probably we become more realistic as we grow up.

but, each time i go home even if i get bored and too much bored sometimes, i get attached to my family members and dont want really to come back, i am forced to come back not by my family members but my inner voice says it-"you have no other option. think it as your duty" and then with a smile on my face i come back to learn...and as days pass, i forget about home, that does not fascinate me anymore....and slowly college becomes my life........

many good things are invisible..

"the art/habit of writing" to many people may seem to be an affair of literature lovers. a good writing requires a lot of patience and devotion, however it is not difficult but interesting.it may serve as a hobby, but alongside it has manifold advantages.

writing truth in a personal diary not only reduces some stress (if at all present), but also tries to develop a better understanding towards the complex issues of life.the judgement power is greatly inhanced. writing truth in one's diary is bound to make his/her life better.

in your memory...

"....those moments, a silent storm was on its full power within me of which i was a mute spectator, the storm which had few chances to arise earlier and i was feeling the warmth of heaven in your lap...."