The Freedom to feel about things we do not have control over!

When the greed gives way to self satisfaction, and the feeling to acquire more and more gets away with, how do we feel?

Certainly, some people may not be happy with this idea of “not having control over many aspects of their life”. But, In a nutshell, It means, “the relief from worrying about things over which we do not have control”, because at the end, we can always be self satisfied thinking for better results, the freedom to form an association, and for worse results, the freedom to reject an association! But, what makes things “under control” and “not under control”?

(List I): Some examples of things which are not under control of an ordinary human being at some point of time in their life:

Birth (immigration), Choice of parents, siblings and other relatives, Going back in time, Going ahead in time, Manipulating things done in the past, Result of acts done in past, Acts of other human beings, Certain emigration.

(List II): Some examples of things which are under control of an ordinary human being at some point of time in their life:

Mind and Body control, Acts of self done in Present, Choice of friends, Choice of spouse through love-marriage, Choice to have children or not to have, Planning (or waiting) for future tense, Forced emigration, etc.

It’s not possible to manipulate acts in List I. Further, certain acts in List I even though unchangeable, give us our identity. I think, we must feel proud of the same. For acts in List II, It’s possible under normal terms and conditions to obtain better results.

It’s very important to construct positives over things which are under our control, for it tends to bring more and more positives over negatives, and since the things which are not under our control have the equal probability of bringing a favourable or unfavourable result, It’s only acts under our control which may help us to achieve the best out of opportunity available to us!